PARENTS OR ENEMIES ?

PARENTS OR ENEMIES?

Time changes a lot. In our days, it was the competition among our classmates, among ourselves only. But now a days , it is very unfortunate to experience that the competition among the students of a class or a section is not restricted to themselves, it simply percolates to the guardians or parents of the students. It is thought parents, guardians become more conscious, that is good, they are well-aware about the current competitive world and their concern about the future of their children is praiseworthy. But the intentions of all the parents may not be for the development of their children, rather it may be an action towards the fulfillment of their selfishness wills and wishes.

Maximum guardians have been met, found that they wanted their son or daughter to become doctor or engineer only due to the reason that his friend's son/daughter  is a student of engineering , neighbor's son is a doctor etc.  it is directly an act of selfishness , they wanted to make themselves proud of their children, to be made count as conscious guardians in the society etc. My dear guardians, it is not politics where name and fame is important. It is observed that all the guardians do not have the same intentions,but many of them are influenced  by the society and the trend that is prevailing in the society. 

Moreover, the intelligent guardians never force their children to score more and more, they only motivate their wards to perceive  about the goal that was inbuilt in their young minds. Another important characteristics of well-experienced guardian is that he is never compare his child with others and doesn't discourage his child by that act of him. It is not important what profession or trade a child has chosen, only his dedication and determination honest steps towards his goal is very important. We should encourage and help our children to follow that straight path leading to his destination.